So the number one thing about having 4 kids and mostly twins are all the comments that I get while just living my everyday day to day life. I can tell you how many times a day someone says to me "oh wow you have your hands full" or "better you then me" or even "gezz I feel sorry for you". Let me tell you how annoying this can get an mostly since when is having children something to feel sorry for someone about?
I defiantly see my kids as amazing blessings. The twins were a huge surprise and blessing all at once its funny how you don't even know you want something until they are there in your arms. Funny how most people think its a bad thing that I have 4 kids yet I see them as the greatest gifts I have ever received. I may be busy my house may be a mess at times and there are moments I want to pull out my hair but it the end it is all worth it. Its funny because growing up I never had wanted kids growing up but I would ever ever change it at all. I just find it so finny that perfect strangers judge me so much. I think it would be fun to answer some of the random crazy questions I get asked the not so polite way I would like to sometimes so lets just get started here
1.) Are they all yours ?
Well no I borrowed them.
Is it me or does that just seem like a dumb question?
2.) You must not get any sleep?
Yeah My husband keeps me up all night! -----> hahah
Actually they are all like me they love to sleep. except for Libby who sometimes is up because her eczema.
3.) Are they Twins?
No they are 1 min apart --> I know its an obvious question people will ask just hearing it so many times gets old.
&& The number one question
4.) Are you done having kids?
Nope we want to be like the family with 19 kids.---> Okay now I love that show but I clearly for us 4 is perfect. I just don't think that it is a strangers business unless I bring it up weather or not me and my husband are planning on having more kids or not.
I just find it crazy the questions that people ask me. Don't get me wrong I am not a rude person and I def don't mind when people wanna talk to me about the twins or the kids I just find it intrusive some of the things get ask or rude comments people say.
So Mama's of multiples or just moms in general what are some off the wall questions you get asked ?
xo,
Beth
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